Wednesday, July 3, 2013

T no more

As an update, I also wrapped things up with T last night.  He was actually very understanding and admitted that right now his head just isn't in the dating game.  He was all, "Let's just focus on being friends for now", and I agreed because it was friendly and can't hurt. 

I felt a little sad about it once the whole other thing imploded, but I reminded myself that having someone who is less than what I want or deserve is no good, and I'm better off on my own until I find the right person.

I did end up with my third plan of the week for tonight.  Originally it was T with the pub trivia, then for one brief moment in time it was date #2 with new guy, and now it's a date with a friend of a friend.  We've met a few times, and he's the one who hosted the party I went to this weekend.  He asked me out on Sunday, and though I don't think we're really so compatible, I agreed to it.  I feel like he will keep asking otherwise, and this way we can hang out solo and he can probably see that we're not compatible, and then that will be taken care of.  ;-)  Then we can just go back to hanging out at group things!

Beyond that, tomorrow I'm going to a Nats game in the late morning, and right now I think I'm going to just go low key for the rest of the holiday.  I guarantee I'm going to feel a little sad about it tomorrow when I see neighbors out grilling with friends, or hear the fireworks later on, but I just don't feel like going to a big party BBQ with mostly people I don't know or going into DC because that's a mess.  Besides that, I've hardly been home lately and it would be nice to just relax!

This weekend is looking all right, too.  Drink with another new guy on Friday (sigh, I know).  Probably bowling with some friends Saturday night, and trainer sunday.  That's all I've got so far!  I'm way behind on movies, so I'd like to say I may catch a solo movie, too, but we'll see. 

Back to work I go!


  1. I think my holiday will be low key too :) I don't want to scramble online looking for dates, all those guys just want last-min holiday weekend sex. I'll try to stay away from Facebook too! Have a good one!

    1. Yeah, I hear you on that. Enjoy your 4th! :)

  2. I was done with T on your birthday! ;)

    Also, I miss our 4th of July parties. I really want to hang out with everyone and make fajitas on the bonfire. Jackass. (This runs through my mind a lot around the 4th!)

    1. Yeah, I know, right? Poor, hapless T.

      Jackass. You should aspire to seize back the bonfire 4th of July idea. ONE DAY.