Thursday, June 27, 2013

Post-Vacation Crazies

So my Florida vacation was wonderful.  I got to spend a lot of time in the sun and on the beach and in the ocean.  I got a nice little flush of color, some peace of mind and had a lot of fun with the girlfriend who joined me!  It was a much needed escape, and I loved spending the bulk of my birthday afternoon on the beach on Monday!

Back to reality late Tuesday afternoon, and I had a session with my trainer at 7pm because I'm a crazy person.  I then ran a couple of errands, including the very efficient spending of a birthday giftcard!  Yesterday at work was busy, but not overwhelmingly so, but today made up for it.  Kind of glad I took a lazy night last night, which included a nap, because today was insane. 

Tonight I'm going to go to the gym and MAYBE get a couple of errands run as well.  Tomorrow night is swimming with a friend at her condo (weather permitting) and Saturday is my second chiro appt. and a BBQ with some friends.  Sunday I'm going to see World War Z and I also have a training session in the morning.  Busy, busy!

I need to do laundry.  I need to clean my apartment.  I need to run errands.  I need to paint my nails (Yes, I did say need!).  I don't know when I will find the time for all of these things, but it will have to happen! 

In other news, still talking to T every day.  He finally found a place to move to, and will be moving this weekend.  I'm hoping this means he will be less distracted and stressy.  I honestly have no idea what's really going on because the pace of it all is so weird.  I saw him the Thursday night before I left for Florida, and we went miniature golfing and sat and talked for awhile after.  It was fun and an activity I enjoy.  He hasn't been on POF since June 13, and sometimes when we're texting it seems like he thinks something with us is a foregone conclusion, but then it's so spotty and sporadic sometimes that I don't know.  We have no new plans on tap, which is mostly fine right now since I know he has to move and my weekend is already overflowing with plans. 

In the meantime, since I'm feeling sort of ??? about where this is going, and since it's going so slowly, I'm still keeping the door open for others.  I've been talking to someone else for a week or two, and we may meet up for a drink or something in the next week. At this point I don't feel like I'm beholden to anyone, and things are so ambiguous with T at this point that I don't feel like I'm doing anything wrong.

Beyond that, I'm just really grateful that tomorrow is Friday, and that I get another weekend, whereupon I will find SOME time to get some things done and to just relax!


  1. Where did you go in Florida? I was just down there in May visiting my dad and it was beautiful weather! I'm glad you had a good time :)

  2. I'm looking forward to hearing more about T but good for you in keeping the door open with others!

  3. So glad you had a nice trip and I am excited to hear about, T, too. The only bad thing about vacations is that you have to come back!!!!

  4. Glad you had a good trip and birthday!