tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post6647608986531657267..comments2023-07-16T09:27:23.139-04:00Comments on Once in A Blue DC Moon: scatteredbluemoonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17824559705320935052noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-28138895156879179302013-01-23T11:34:11.839-05:002013-01-23T11:34:11.839-05:00It is beautiful, and it is terrifying, LOL. These...It is beautiful, and it is terrifying, LOL. These are the things I miss most about a relationship: the intimacy, the familiarity, the security. Even my bad relationships offered that on some level, and I came to rely on it since I just jumped from one relationship to another. <br /><br />Now that I've been on my own for a couple of years, it's scarier to think about how to get to that point, and how to find the line between appreciating that intimacy and comfort level and relying on it. That's something I'm still trying to figure out!bluemoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17824559705320935052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-37243620979385253322013-01-22T17:58:12.406-05:002013-01-22T17:58:12.406-05:00It's so interesting to me to hear you talk abo...It's so interesting to me to hear you talk about that instinct to fit into the crook of someone's arm and memorize their face. I sounds so beautiful, and it also terrifies me. I've been single my whole 30 years of life - I've had two "boyfriends" but they were less than 5 months each, and neither ever thought of me as his girlfriend. I realized that I don't know how to be in a relationship, I don't know how to compromise all the time. And yet - I want it! At least, I think I do. Sabrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06711470733997117332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-40744438616554526242013-01-22T14:27:49.753-05:002013-01-22T14:27:49.753-05:00You know, reading your comment triggered a little ...You know, reading your comment triggered a little realization for me: you're right. I'm not doing anything wrong with Artboy. In particular now that it's not emotionally screwing with me the same way it was before, now it's just two single people occasionally coming together for easy company. I don't know why I continue to judge myself so harshly for it...perhaps because I've been warned away from him so many times? Either way, the way things are now I know I am not in love with him, I know we are not meant to be, and I'm okay with that!<br /><br />As far as the time alone, realization #2! While I do occasionally lapse into antisocial behavior where I do need to force myself out, in general I've always been really good about going to the things I actually want to. I really *do* enjoy my solo time most of the time, and just because the general population thinks I should get out more to be more "normal" doesn't mean I have to buy into that!<br /><br />Thank you! bluemoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17824559705320935052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-3935675614740660572013-01-22T13:54:02.996-05:002013-01-22T13:54:02.996-05:00I can identify with this, although I'm the opp...I can identify with this, although I'm the opposite, I've never maintained a long term relationship and have always been single. This thing I have with Aquaman is the longest I've had with anyone. <br /><br />Besides, I don't think what you're doing with Artboy is wrong, men do it all the time. Perhaps you believe you should be out and social and all that, because of what other people might think? If you enjoy the time you spend alone, then its not time wasted. Although, I'm saying this from the perspective of a certified homebody. Besides, how are you going to save for a house if you are out doing stuff and going to dinners and all that all the time? <br /><br />I love quick bathroom makeovers. I did that when I moved, worth it.Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04106092363732337130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-28846295273002849512013-01-22T13:31:57.860-05:002013-01-22T13:31:57.860-05:00Yeah, definitely. I've adjusted really well t...Yeah, definitely. I've adjusted really well to not having that as a constant for a couple of years now, but every now and again it's really nice to remember how it feels.bluemoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17824559705320935052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-83052842592112220142013-01-22T11:18:59.158-05:002013-01-22T11:18:59.158-05:00I definitely know that feeling. There are times w...I definitely know that feeling. There are times when I'm just so run-down, so exhausted by life in general that I just want someone to hold me. Annie Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07483761744957186170noreply@blogger.com