tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post6383612483950934668..comments2023-07-16T09:27:23.139-04:00Comments on Once in A Blue DC Moon: trust your instinctsbluemoonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17824559705320935052noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-3002333884278807452013-08-02T16:29:55.518-04:002013-08-02T16:29:55.518-04:00Yeah, I don't know...I think I've been doi...Yeah, I don't know...I think I've been doing this for so long that people figure I must be exaggerating or something when I recount bad dates. I need to learn to factor in my own judgment a little more instead of being peer pressured into further bad dates, LOL.bluemoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17824559705320935052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-72117542193302416622013-08-02T16:29:02.085-04:002013-08-02T16:29:02.085-04:00Too many chances, that's for sure!Too many chances, that's for sure!bluemoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17824559705320935052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-91388098084358237122013-08-01T20:51:27.497-04:002013-08-01T20:51:27.497-04:00I'm more puzzled by your friends suggesting yo...I'm more puzzled by your friends suggesting you meet up with him than anything else. It was clear he was a loser. It's funny, a couple of my friends think I'm too friendly and maybe could be more (initially) selective, but you take it to another level. I kinda admire it. You certainly have more patience with people than I do.SMBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14424979479059099898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-52918509738335416602013-08-01T17:08:55.231-04:002013-08-01T17:08:55.231-04:00Just the losers.Just the losers.Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04106092363732337130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-19720839462605128932013-08-01T16:51:05.269-04:002013-08-01T16:51:05.269-04:00Oh dear gods... Yeah, definitely get rid of that o...Oh dear gods... Yeah, definitely get rid of that one. You gave him how many chances and he's going to act like that... OI!Annie Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07483761744957186170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-22865831672701944702013-08-01T10:49:24.179-04:002013-08-01T10:49:24.179-04:00You are right, shame on me for sure. Yes, my inst...You are right, shame on me for sure. Yes, my instincts have led me astray, but when I have a bad/off feeling about someone, I should go with it. I KNEW something was off with him.<br /><br />I should just take your advice and start being really honest about this stuff with these guys. What do I have to lose?bluemoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17824559705320935052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-76971450820510727872013-08-01T10:48:26.309-04:002013-08-01T10:48:26.309-04:00Totally a jealous weirdo. Next time I'm going...Totally a jealous weirdo. Next time I'm going with my gut.bluemoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17824559705320935052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-70870748945715112922013-08-01T10:48:08.123-04:002013-08-01T10:48:08.123-04:00Yeah, what a freak. :oYeah, what a freak. :obluemoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17824559705320935052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-14106041179144714562013-08-01T10:34:55.398-04:002013-08-01T10:34:55.398-04:00REALLY? WHAT A FREAK!!!!! Trust those instincts....REALLY? WHAT A FREAK!!!!! Trust those instincts. And, he is a jealous weirdo. Readyandfadinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07701847911003124862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-49601092345838391102013-07-31T20:19:03.840-04:002013-07-31T20:19:03.840-04:00Um yes, shame on you. And shame on your friends. ...Um yes, shame on you. And shame on your friends. Look, YOU know what's best FOR YOU! You're friends were not on that date, and while you can appreciate some constructive criticism or whatever, you weren't that into it. I bet they love to hear all about your dating life over drinks then go back to their husbands afterwards, not even giving half an ounce of a fuck about the advice they gave you. I'm not trying to make your friends seem like bad people, I know my dearest friends do the same thing, but in the end, most of my married or coupled up friends haven't been on the dating scene like we have in years. In fact they may have been able to skip that entire horrible online dating scene for the most part. <br /><br />That's why when two of my closest friends told me to give that last IT nerdy guy another chance, I was like, no sorry. I already knew I wasn't going to go there. Their input didn't change it, and I'm glad. <br /><br />If you don't like what a guy is putting down, you need to say something via message or whatever before you go out with him. Why not be picky on certain things? The last dude that wasn't engaging me in conversation I called him out. I don't give a shit anymore about "being nice" in order to get a man and neither should you, especially when these "men" and acting like children. I'm me, and that's it. Take it or leave it. Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04106092363732337130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-88114908104157827242013-07-31T18:37:04.468-04:002013-07-31T18:37:04.468-04:00For real??? Delusional. NEXT!For real??? Delusional. NEXT!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-4900632447372662842013-07-31T15:02:09.557-04:002013-07-31T15:02:09.557-04:00RIGHT? Something is off with this guy. What a to...RIGHT? Something is off with this guy. What a totally, completely delusional way of looking at things. Also? In order to see that I'm online TALKING TO OTHER GUYS, he has to be online. Hypocrite much?bluemoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17824559705320935052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158112018214983762.post-6598700689597872382013-07-31T15:00:24.830-04:002013-07-31T15:00:24.830-04:00WTF? He is delusional! He won't man up and a...WTF? He is delusional! He won't man up and ask you out, he puts the responsibility on you to have another date, and then gets pissy because you don't want to be in an official relationship with him? What planet is he living on?Sabrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06711470733997117332noreply@blogger.com